Safety
Real moderators, clear rules, fast response.
Here's how it works in plain language.
Every member is reviewed before joining.
Invite links are single-use and can't be forwarded.
A founding community leader's invite link grants instant approval; member referral links and cold applications go through a 24-48 hour human review.
A small team plus community leaders.
Every report is reviewed.
Standard response is under 24 hours; child-safety reports are prioritized within an hour.
You can post anonymously to other members for sensitive topics.
Our team retains identity for moderation only, every access is logged.
Profiles are not indexed by Google.
Locations are metro-level.
We never share your activity with families or employers.
Most issues end with a private nudge.
Repeat or serious violations escalate to warnings, suspensions, or removal.
Appeals are reviewed by a different person than the one who made the call.
Egregious off-platform conduct, verified, can be grounds for removal.
We publish where that line is.